And Why You Should Stop Looking for Proof
A few years ago, I was stuck in a plateau.
No momentum. No miracles. Nothing new was happening, I was recycling the same day for many years. I have started a business and every time I checked my inbox or peeked at my bank account; a wave of low-grade panic would creep in.
“This isn’t working. This isn’t happening.” “Why God does not love me?” And the last one hurt the most.
Until something clicked when I embarked on my self-development journey. And I’m sharing it with you, because it changed everything for me.
🌬️ The Secret?
Treat your current reality as an echo, not evidence.
Your life right now — the numbers, the silence, the relationship status — it’s all just old data. A delayed broadcast from the energy you were putting out days, weeks, even months ago.
The mistake we make?
We treat this echo as truth, as the only reality we get to live.
We react to it. We shrink. We spiral. We resist it and we get stuck in it and for decades sometimes.
And by doing so, we feed the old identity — and recreate the same outcomes. But I broke that loop. And it took three simple steps:
✨ 1. “This Is Just an Echo.”
Say it.
Write it. Write it on sticky notes, write it where you can constantly see it, write it throughout the day on your lunch receipt, anywhere where you are allowed to write.
Whisper it in the mirror.
Scream it while brushing your teeth if you must — but interrupt the pattern.
Put the life that you want in front of you all the time and stop being fixated and obsessed by where you are especially what you don’t like about it.
Stop making your now means forever. Start making it means nothing more than a snapshot of your past energy.
🔮 2. Make One Decision Your Future Self Would Make — Today.
It doesn’t have to be grand.
It could be:
– Raising your prices
– Saying no faster
– Speaking your truth
– Wearing the perfume that makes you feel rich
– Having something different for breakfast Tiny choices recalibrate your frequency. They speak the language of alignment.
They whisper to the Universe: I’m becoming her.
Tiny decisions create momentum over time.
🚫 3. Stop Obsessively Checking for Proof
Stop refreshing the inbox.
Stop rereading the message.
Stop checking the damn bank app.
Write what you are committed to creating on paper, doodle it, watch videos of the life that you want, to soak yourself into that frequency and believe it is already yours, believe you can make it your reality.
Because the version of you who already has it?
She’s not looking for proof. She is the proof.
You have to be relaxed throughout all this process not stressed.
In The Reflective Circle journaling membership we are continuing to work on the powerful theme of embodiment and practicing being the person we each need to be one tiny habit at a time.
If your reality feels flat, uninspired, or stuck — remember this:
💡 Don’t feed the echo.
💡 Let the field catch up.
💡 Recalibrate your broadcast.
Once you stop waiting for confirmation, you become it.
With fierce love,
Salima
