Dear Women Who Feel Unseen, Unheard, Lost, and Afraid to Truly Live,
This is my story, and it may be yours too.
Seven years ago, I found myself stuck in a cycle of complaints, overwhelmed by everything that felt wrong in my life. One day, a mentor listened to me and then asked a question that would forever change my path: “Why are you making yourself so miserable?” Those words stirred something deep inside me, sparking the beginning of an inner journey that I didn’t know I desperately needed.
It wasn’t until I heard Lisa Nichols say, “I am going to be my own rescue,” and then Michelle Rohn’s revelation, “I lived the same year twice,” that I truly woke up. Those words hit me hard, as if they were finally diagnosing the silent struggle I had been enduring for years—a life that repeated itself, year after year, while I remained stuck, trapped in patterns that kept me small and hidden.
When I decided to leave school, I carried the voices of well-meaning family members who told me I wouldn’t amount to much. Those words took root in the garden of my mind, growing into a forest of shame, self-doubt, low expectations, and endless patterns of putting everyone else first. I postponed my happiness, telling myself I would live fully “when” everything was perfect. I pushed away my own desires, telling myself they were out of reach. Walking into a luxury store, I’d admire the beauty of exquisite craftsmanship, but that inner voice would remind me, “This is too expensive; it’s not for you.” And the same pattern would show up in other areas of my life.
I immersed myself in the world of self-development, hoping to find something that would fix me, but nothing seemed to make a difference. Then, I stumbled upon a course that challenged me to say yes to my desires, not someday, but now. That message transformed my life in ways that no book, course, or seminar ever could. I made a commitment to cultivate joy, choosing three words to guide me: soar, roar, and be limitless. And just like that, I unlocked a door in my mind I didn’t know existed.
As I began planting new thoughts—ones that nourished and uplifted me—I discovered ways to start living the life I wanted right where I was, with what I had. I promised myself that never again would I waste a moment of my life feeling small, unseen, or unworthy. No longer would I put myself last, hide my true desires, or live as though I was waiting for permission to take up space.
I share this with you because I know what it’s like to feel invisible, unheard, and afraid to truly live. But I also know the power of taking 100% responsibility for your life, of choosing to live by your desires and using your fears as a compass for growth.
When I began embracing my core values of adventure, integrity, freedom, and meaningful work, I started to cultivate a new energy and vibrate at a higher frequency. As a result, I’ve experienced wealth in a way that feels genuine and authentic to me, enriching my life in every sense of the word.
To you, dear woman, who feels like no one sees you or hears you—know that I do. I’ve been where you are, and I’ve found my way out. Now, I’m reaching out to you, inviting you to join a tribe where your dreams are not only heard but celebrated. Here, you will find a home—a place where you can finally say, “This is so me.” Together, we will unlock the life that is yours to live, a life that feels limitless, intentional, and truly yours.
From a woman who feels, hears and sees your pain.
With all my heart,
Salima